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18 February 2019
Love is what fuels everything else, and our ultimate purpose in life is to love others. It’s February, and that means if you’re in a couple, each better half greets the other with red hearts, red roses, and sweet messages like “be mine” written in elegant script everywhere you look. However, for a single person, V-Day could just feel like another day of the month. But know that no day is “just another day”—every day is a chance to embrace joy and love. So if you’re single on Valentine’s Day, the real question to ask yourself is what you want to do with this day.
Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity for introspection and self-reflection. The love you receive is often a direct reflection of the love you have for yourself, so why not make the day about cherishing your own worth? Take some time to exercise self-love and appreciate all that you bring to the world. A loving relationship with yourself sets the foundation for all other relationships.
Just because you’re single and haven’t yet found that special someone doesn’t mean you have to feel left out of the festivities. You can dedicate this day that honors love to something meaningful, spreading kindness in ways that matter. After all, love is not limited to romance—it exists in countless forms, each worth celebrating.
Here are some ideas of how to turn it up on Valentine’s Day when you are single:
Pass the Love Forward
The week of February 11-17th is Random Acts of Kindness Week. It’s a great initiative to do kind acts for others. Check your local community center and see if there are some volunteer opportunities. Well V-day is a day of love so instead of crying, or eating way too much ice cream and complaining how lonely you are. You can buy elderly or young orphanage something to cheer them up. Seeing them happy will surely make you feel not alone and loved. Often by showing love to others , this can be one of the most fulfilling things you can do. Acts of kindness can bring unexpected warmth and make you feel deeply connected to the world.
Make Profile on Dating App
If you are truly serious about finding that special one. Take this day to make awesome honest profile on dating app. The law of attraction and visualising what you want is the first step to attracting compatible people in your life. Take turns swiping on each profile , try to find that someone special and fix a first date. Valentine’s Day is a high pressure night for a first date which is why it could be extra entertaining. Swiping through profiles can be fun, and who knows? You might find someone who makes this V-Day memorable.
Change Your Look
Use V-Day to try out the style changes you’ve been considering. Maybe you’ve been wanting to chop off your hair or try a new color—today’s a great day to go for it. Reinventing your look can be empowering and a fun way to celebrate yourself. And if it means chilling in your PJs or cooking your favorite meal, embrace it because it’s all about “YOU.”
Treat Yourself as King or Queen
Think of V-Day as your day. Go on a shopping spree and take advantage of the holiday sales Buy your favorite things and relish the fact that you don’t have to share it with anyone.
Go to a Museum or an Art Exhibition
Take the time to go to that art exhibit you’ve been wanting to check out for months. Celebrate it with
#HeartsforArt, a special way for art lovers to show off their love of art. Finding beauty in art can be a refreshing experience, adding a meaningful touch to your day. Finding beauty in art can be a refreshing experience, adding a meaningful touch to your day.
Laugh it Up!
Laughing gives you endorphins, which boosts your mood, reduces stress and makes you happy. So hit up a comedy club or watch some stand up on Netflix. Host a dinner party with other singles so that you can enjoy some laughter among friends ,taking away all the negativity you might have about the occasion—it’s the best remedy for any V-Day blues.
Stay Off of Social Media
Facebook or instagram, stalking your ex to see how they’re celebrating their day is not going to make you feel happy or confident. Instead read a good motivating book , watch some sports over TV or laptop OR step out and play something. Binge watch movies, TV series or web series you were planning to watch for so long. Protecting your peace is the best way to ensure your happiness.
Chill with Friends & Family
Love isn’t only the romantic kind, but non-romantic love exists too. Remember your precious friendships! Have a V-Day meet up with your bestie or closest friends. Go to one of your favorite hanging spots and make V-Day about celebrating friends who make a difference in your life. You can also cook and set a romantic dinner for your parents . Spending time with your family is going to make you and your family happy.
There are countless ways to spread love, and now you have a few more ideas on how to make this day your own. Be spontaneous and embrace life with joy, knowing that every step you take brings you closer to happiness. Remember, when you radiate love, you create a ripple effect, bringing warmth to everyone around you. So, live your life fully and keep shining your fabulous self!
