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25 February 2019
Most platforms and forum focuses on the intimacy part of a relationship, but as per us, that comes much later. One needs to focus on various other parameters of a relationship like the outward signs to test how healthy is a relationship at the first place.
It helps in knowing what the other person is thinking. It follows the approach of an assumption that observable actions provide, in many cases, harder evidence
about what’s going on inside a person than the inferences we make from what he
or she says.
A lot of times we end up thinking that it is love but it is just another fling or infatuation towards that person. It is a different approach all together. We do not realize how there is a very thin line between liking someone and actually being into someone. The thin line can either make something substantially beautiful or just break it up and turn it into a fling for a little while. It is crucial to know and understand what course your life is actually taking.
Here is a list of “ Ten Things That Scream Your Partner Is Into You”. Read up below!
Now, we all see that one person – pretty face, good humor and get that sudden rush of excitement. But, little do we know that if it is even worth investing time and energy into. Wanting to invest time in a relationship is a sign and is a key indicator of successful long-term intimacy. We are all busy in our own rat races but finding time and energy and still making it a point is a sign! Do not lose out on this opportunity. The person is a keeper!
A partner who genuinely cares about you will always give you the benefit of the doubt. Research and various studies show that in a long term – successful relation, partners want to have a sense of knowing where their mates are at any given time. However, they do not have this worry that their partner might be up to something that they would not like to see. When your partner does not unnecessarily question you or snoop around through your mobile phone or emails is showcasing truth in you and it is up to you to keep the person’s trust for humanity purpose if not anything else.
We all lead an extra busy life and the last thing we would want is some extra chores on our plate When you find your partner always lending a hand at making your life easy – trust me, he or she is a keeper!
A number of surveys say that opposites attract and like poles repel. It might be the case as a number of us sub-consciously seek a person who might fit into like the missing pieces of a puzzle into your life. This sounds beautiful but comes with a lot of hard work. This means two people with a lot of contrasting views – which needs to be dealt with respectfully and without much of adverse reactions like we call it. Listening your views and considereing your opinions is just another sign of your partner is into you ,totally.
Partners who wish to walk the path of life together should also become a part of each other’s life. It is of utmost importance to become a part of each other’s important decisions in life. One should be standing beside each other while taking all of those decisions. Most of the times, it leads to a better decision making because your partner is there to give suggestions.
Couples do not have to engage in frequent Public Display of Affection (PDA) to showcase their love for each other. It is not the sex that is required to be in love. It is the beautiful transition of a peck to holding hands that are required. It means so much more to just hold hands and steal a peck than a one night stand.
The non-verbal cues that partners share with each other reveal their deeper feelings. If your partner looks at you while you are talking, or if you catch him or her darting a glance your way, it suggests that you are a treat and a pleasure to their eyes. It is notable spending hours gazing at each other. Sometimes it is about a sudden glance and that could be enough to send the beautiful surreal love-vibes.
This one is a rather psychological one. If your partner spends time from his or her busy schedule reminiscing the beautiful romantic and fun times you have spent- it means you two have walked some good times together and won conquests. It is very important to keep such people together and cherish every moment together.
Does your partner defend you when someone else criticizes you? It is not always about saving you or protecting you, it is about willing to take a bullet for you. It is of utmost importance to know that if someone is actually willing to put them selves before you or after you. It is a very import ant thing to judge a relationship on.
Now, who would want to be with someone who keeps criticizing you for the color you love wearing or the type of clothes you enjoy wearing or the set of friends you have and enjoy hanging out with? It is a major setback. The person, your partner needs to be willing to accept you the way you are with all your flaws and both of you together can work towards making the life a better place and work upon both your flaws. No human is perfect and it is okay to be willing to accept flaws.
These ten- pointers are important and are a key to knowing if the person you are eyeing is investing time and energy into is even worth your time and energy or is just someone who is passing time and is not hell-bent on taking that one little but important step for you. Life is important and it is of utmost importance to be clear about what you invest into and have the patience to nurture it. Be patient, look for the right pointers and never let go of that one person who makes your heart skip a beat and makes you smile eternally.
